Education

The center is hosting a Fall Open House! 

Thursday, September 6, 2007
10:00 am - 12:00 noon
Anderson Hall, Fourth Presbyterian Church

Come and learn about the center and its dynamic classes, which represent a diverse array of academics, arts, current events, exercise and fitness, and more.

Check out their new expanded offerings: minicourses and "For Men Only" programs.

The open house is free and will feature live music and refreshments, and is open to all men and women 60 and over.

For more information contact the center at 312-981-3387

November is Alzheimer’s Awareness Month and you know that Knowledge is Power! Let us bring the facts and some answers to the forefront.

How Alzheimer’s Awareness Can Make Everyday Life Easier

If you understand what a person with Alzheimer’s is experiencing, you will find it easier to empathize. Understanding that these symptoms are common among those who have AD may help you in knowing that you are not alone.

• Eating – It is very common for those with AD to change their eating habits. Foods they once loved they may now say they dislike and foods they never ate may suddenly seem appealing. Alzheimer’s also affects their ability to understand/comprehend hunger, especially as the disease progresses.
• Fears & Paranoia – Because of the way the brain processes things your loved one may experience unfound fears and paranoia that makes no sense to you. AD affects the brain and the way it processes thoughts.
• Combativeness – Acting out in aggression can be very dangerous for everyone involved. This may happen with anyone and can often be very surprising. Unfortunately it’s something that happens often.

Tips to Battle the Symptoms Listed Above

These resources and ideas will help you when and if your loved one starts to have these common symptoms. Remember that one of the best ways to deal with Alzheimer’s on a daily basis is to find a senior living home that can keep them safe, active, and most of all comfortable. Senior Living Experts can help you find the right fit for your needs.

Help With Eating

A study by Boston University showed that the color of the plate used has a big affect on how well the Alzheimer’s patients ate. White plates seem to literally hide many foods from the view of the person; while brighter plates (in this case red) seemed to make people with AD eat more. Other options to consider:

1. Keep healthy, high protein snacks around for them to eat
2. Don’t fight if they want to eat the same thing over & over
3. Find better ways to prepare or add to their favorites in order to make them more protein filled & calorie rich if needed (adding protein powders, using drinks such as milk shakes made with real fruit & protein powder, etc.)
4. Focus on snacking often as opposed to sitting down to large meal
5. Keep meals simple with only 1 or 2 items as opposed to a table with many items on it

Helping Your Loved One with Fears, Paranoia, Delusions & Anxiety

While they may get upset, afraid and fearful for what seems like no real reason to you; remember that these fears and upsetting things are very real to your loved one. They also may begin to show signs of delusion.

1. The article Coping With Paranoia & Delusions in Alzheimer’s from Very Well Magazine is very helpful in understanding why your loved one is acting and thinking in certain ways.
2. Don’t argue with them if they aren’t remembering correctly. Instead try to change the subject.
3. Delusions can begin to occur in the middle to end of the Alzheimer’s stages. The Alzheimer’s Association offers this information regarding delusions and fears.

When They Become Aggressive & Combative

Unfortunately becoming combative is quite common. It is especially important that signs of aggression be addressed immediately, before anyone is hurt.

1. One of the best and safest ways to deal with an aggressive AD patient is to place them in an experienced environment that knows how to keep them safe. Senior Living Experts will help you find the place that fits your needs best while helping to keep you loved one as safe as possible.
2. Never accept anger and aggressiveness as “okay” because it can cause very real physical danger to not only the person who is caring for the AD patient but also to the patient.
3. These tips from the Alzheimer’s Association can be very helpful in how to respond to aggression from your loved one. It also addresses Alzheimer’s awareness as to what may be causing the anger and aggression.

Why Senior Living Experts Can Help

Let’s face it nobody wants to move their loved ones out of their home. However, there comes a time when you have to think about:

• Comfort
• Safety
• Constant Care
• Regular Medical Attendance
• Quality of Life

While these things may have once been easy to find living at home; once a person has Alzheimer’s disease nothing is the same. Alzheimer’s awareness is one way to help you understand what your loved one is going through and helps you understand that there comes a time when your family is best served by a senior living facility. Photo by Thomas Leuthard

Senior Living Experts wants you to fully understand the role of social workers in Chicago assisted living facilities. The job of being a social worker can be extremely difficult while also being quite rewarding too.

What is The Role of Social Workers in Chicago Assisted Living Facilities

Choosing a Chicago assisted living facility for your senior loved one could be one of the more difficult decisions you will have to face. The most important part of understanding the role of the geriatric social worker in assisted living facilities (ALF) is to understand that the job requires a multitude of skills.

What Do Social Workers in Chicago Assisted Living Facilities Do?

Becoming a Social Worker:The skills involved in being a social worker for an ALF are something that requires a natural ability. It also requires an education too. Social workers must have a bachelor’s degree or master’s degree to practice. Along with a degree there are continuing education courses that are especially relevant in keeping your license up to date.The Role of the Social Worker in Chicago Assisted Living Facilities

• Interact between the client, their family & the ALF to be sure everyone is heard and understood.
• Be certain that advanced care plans are created and filed if needed. (living wills, DNR, Estate Planning, advanced directives)
• Helps defer problems that can occur while the client lives in the facility.
• Give the client and their family tours of the facility.
• Explain programs and options available to the client & their family.
• Serve as a liaison for the client and their family between the ALF & other institutions (hospitals, medical facilities & more).
• Collaborate with other professionals to help evaluate & assess client needs.
• Act as a patient advocate if a client is in need of something (medical, personal, or other).
• Monitor the client’s progress and changes.
• Complete necessary paperwork needed for a variety of changes or requests.
• Offer counsel to clients and their families during any worrisome moments.
• Help explain situations and rules of programs and living area to reduce any confusion.
• Help create a discharge plan in the case of the client leaving any facility; including coming from one facility to another (hospital, temporary rehab care, etc.).

In addition to all of the services mentioned above, an ALF social worker may wear many caps inside the facility too. It’s noteworthy that you will likely see the social worker often as they tend to be involved directly with the clients each day.

Summary: How the Role of Social Workers in Chicago Assisted Living Facilities Improve Quality of Life for Elderly Residents

Many could refer to the role of social workers in Chicago assisted living facilities as the glue that holds it all together. They help with a number of daily activities and functions throughout the facility. ALF social workers oversee & help ensure that the client is well cared for and understood.

How Residents' Lives Are Improved by Social Workers:

• They give the client a voice.
• Social workers show a personal concern for the well-being and happiness of the client.
• As part of their job, they monitor how the client is doing each day. They make special notes if someone doesn’t seem to be “themselves” or is acting differently.
• As a liaison they bring all voices together so everyone knows where they stand.
• Bring technical language to layman terms; making sure everyone understands the terminology.
• Stand up for the rights of the client.
• One of the most complicated & time consuming parts of their job is to complete & submit tons of paperwork on behalf of the client & the facility.
• Working as a mediator, they help reduce the stress of the client by providing a voice for them. They also explain the system and answer any questions the client or their family may have.

There’s no question that social workers are a huge relief to the family and clients of those who live in assisted living. They remove a lot of stress and confusion in what can often be a very difficult and confusing time of life.

Let Us Help

Our team offers the help in finding the best fit for your senior living needs while offering the best tips and help available. Social workers in Chicago assisted living facilities improve the quality of life for elderly residents by not only helping reduce confusing but by offering numerous answers to questions and fears associated with a big moment in life.Photo by austinevan

Everyone needs a break which makes it prudent to seek respite care in Chicago; it’s okay to take a break. Respite care offers both the caregiver and the client a safe and secure alternative when needed.Caregiving for someone else is exhausting and everyone needs a break. Respite care not only helps consumers and seniors with a safe, supportive spot to stay, but also gives caregivers the opportunity to ensure client safety and overall wellness, while taking care of their own needs. Senior Living Experts can connect you with the assisted living facilities near Chicago that offer respite care for seniors and their caregivers.

Find respite care in Chicago: It’s okay to take a break

Take a virtual tour of respite facilities in Chicago online before arranging visits or stays. Also, read reviews and feedback from other caregivers and clients to determine the level of satisfaction and quality of care provided before making a choice. While beds may be limited, finding the right facility can make the difference in how smoothly and quickly the consumer returns home.

Benefits for caregiver

When thinking about respite care, consider how time away can have benefits for the primary caregivers. Often-times, the responsibilities, and care of an older or disabled person falls on the shoulders of one person, who naturally needs a break from time-to-time; some ways that respite helps the caregiver include:

Time to re-charge

Transitioning the senior to respite care for a few days gives the caregiver time to recharge. Taking time for relaxation, leisure, and family are important in order to combat the rigors of caregiving for someone that has medical needs or a physical disability. When it is not feasible for others to step-in and fill the role of the primary caregivers, respite care is a viable option.

Prevent burnout

It is important to avoid compassion fatigue when providing care to others by stepping back and giving yourself time to recuperate and relax. Burnout is often earmarked by mood swings, depression, fatigue, insomnia, and hopelessness; if left unaddressed, burnout can lead to compassion fatigue which can seriously compromise the care provided and the well-being of both parties.

Opportunity to coordinate care

A brief respite stay also provides family and caregivers time to coordinate care and ensure that their loved one has the supports in-place that are needed. Whether you need to hire help, train caregivers, or line-up services, respite provides a safe and comfortable place for the client to be during the interim.

Smooth transitions

Respite can also be an invaluable resource for situations that are not expected. For instance, an assisted living offering respite could provide the smooth transition needed for the senior to re-adapt to home, such as following the death of a spouse or caregiver illness.

Benefits for client and consumer

Respite care is perfect for seniors that want to return home as swiftly as possible, while also preventing possible rehospitalization, injuries, or hazards that could compromise their overall health and well-being. Some of the ways that respite aids clients include:

Post-hospitalization recovery

Respite care may serve as a rehabilitative stay following surgery or a hospitalization. This is a type of step-down from a skilled nursing facility, like a hospital or nursing home, and is motivated by the drive to return the individual to their home swiftly. Plus, the senior will have all the therapists, practitioners, and providers at their fingertips during respite, which may hasten overall recovery time and improve prognoses.

A safe place to be

If the senior experiences a situation or crisis that results in unsafe living conditions, a respite stay could be in order. For example, if a senior’s pipes-freeze and they no longer have running water, respite care may be able to accommodate them safely until repairs can be completed.

Support for rehabilitation

In the case of an injury, your senior’s provider may recommend a brief stay in a respite facility. This will provide adequate access to rehabilitative services to speed-up recovery before returning home. This also is a prudent option for seniors that live alone and that lack access to transportation or resources.

A supportive environment to thrive

Respite also fills a number of voids that could occur in the life of a senior living independently, providing a safe option during a crisis or emergency. For instance, during a hurricane or blizzard, a medically-compromised senior may turn to respite care to weather the storm. This provides a secure and supportive place during disasters that ensures their medical needs will also be met.

Don’t wait to talk to Senior Living Experts about respite care in the Chicago area. These services involve a process of eligibility and application, which can be done now to help preserve this resource later-on when you need it most. The support professionals at Senior Living Experts will assess needs and provide options for both the senior and the caregiver.

Alzheimer’s care faces unique challenges during the holiday season, which makes simple tips and pragmatic solutions prudent. Enlist help and strive for comfort during the holidays. Spending the holidays with someone that has Alzheimer’s disease does present some challenges, but can also be the perfect time to make a connection with them, too. Create a comfortable and low-stress environment for your senior, and reach out to Senior Living Experts for support in managing your loved one’s progressing disease.

Try these suggestions to make this season a bit easier and less-chaotic for everyone:

• Take the opportunity to assess your senior’s progress

It can be tough to know what to give someone that is suffering from Alzheimer’s, so give gifts that are in line with how far their dementia has progressed. For example, give books or fruit baskets for early-stage Alzheimer’s patients, or gift warm slippers and lap throws for late-stage patients. Watch how your senior reacts and responds to the familiar events and traditions of the holiday. This informal assessment could shed light on where your loved one is in the Alzheimer’s spectrum.

• Make things familiar for your senior

When you are celebrating the holiday with someone that has Alzheimer’s, strive to keep things familiar and low-key. Don’t make this the time to rearrange furniture or start new holiday traditions. Try to keep things simple, and use mementos, decorations, and displays that your senior may recognize from holidays past.

• Don’t get hung-up on tradition

Speaking of traditions, don’t worry about honoring all of the long-held family traditions that you typically observe during the holidays. Instead, choose one or two that your loved one has previously participated in, and integrate these. Don’t try to do everything that you remember in an effort to strike a chord with your senior; make things easy on yourself and focus on one or two. Consider spending a little time looking at old photos with your loved one, or simply allocating some time to put chores aside and just spend time together.

• Keep things simple and stress-free

Perhaps most importantly, plan simple festivities and don’t overwhelm the senior with large crowds or chaotic situations. Don’t try to pack too much into the holiday, and make it a point to allow ample time to rest and recuperate for your senior. Enjoy laid-back pleasures, like a cup of tea with a neighbor or carols by the fireplace with family. Try to get your shopping done ahead or online, as the traffic and stores could prove difficult for seniors exhibiting dementia.

• Examine your own expectations

Check in frequently with the senior and don’t let your own expectations disappoint or frustrate you. Holidays can be stressful, and individuals living with Alzheimer’s may actually show some decline in function, cognition, and memory when feeling anxious, nervous, or unsure. Celebrate the small victories and try to live in the present; even if it doesn’t seem to help your aging loved one, it can help your own morale and overall well-being.

• Take others up on offers of assistance

When a trusted friend or family member makes an offer of assistance or support, take them up on it. The interaction and engagement could be good for your loved one, and it also provides respite for caregivers. When people ask what they can do, tell them; a cooked meal, an hour break, or a grocery run can be a great help when you are trying to provide care for someone with Alzheimer’s during the busy holiday season.

Alzheimer’s care faces unique challenges during the holiday season

The holidays can be a confusing and scary time for many suffering from Alzheimer’s disease; the unfamiliar faces, hectic schedule, and loud parties can make some feel anxious which can exacerbate existing symptoms, such as memory loss and aphasia. Don’t let the hurdles deter you, however, from spending quality time with your loved one during the coming holidays but use common-sense strategies to minimize stress.

Reach out for support and resources as needed

It takes a team to treat Alzheimer’s, including family, caregivers, providers, and practitioners. Make sure that the person you love has a qualified and united treatment team that are all working toward the same goals. Consult with online resources to find specialists and Alzheimer’s support as needed, for your loved one and their caregivers.Make this Christmas a special and meaningful season for you and your senior living with Alzheimer’s disease. Keep these tips in mind to plan a simple and safe holiday, while engaging and involving your loved one. Reach out to Senior Living Experts; for assistance with lining up caregivers, providers, and services that could improve the overall quality of life for someone struggling with Alzheimer’s disease.

We are seeing an increase in the number of younger onset Alzheimer’s diagnoses. It’s difficult to talk about and even more difficult to discuss a safe living environment for someone who has been diagnosed with younger onset Alzheimer’s. This article from the Alzheimer's association is an excellent resource.

Facts About Younger Onset Alzheimer’s Disease

• Effects 200,000 Americans – These 200,000 Americans represent 5% of the Alzheimer’s population.
• Age – Early onset AD symptoms can begin as early as the 30’s-40’s but it is more typical to begin at the age of approximately 50.
• Definition –Early onset AD is defined as anyone who is diagnosed with Alzheimer’s before the age of 65.
• Hiding Symptoms – It is very common for people to try to hide the symptoms of Alzheimer’s at any age. However, those who are experiencing the symptoms at a younger than “normal” age may be more successful at doing so because people are less likely to associate the symptoms with Alzheimer’s than they would with someone older.

• Cause – According to this article from the Mayo Clinic, those who experience early onset AD commonly have a genetic connection. They are more likely to have a parent or grandparent who also experienced early onset AD.
• Social Losses – Because of age, there are a number of social losses and disruptions for those who experience early onset Alzheimer’s disease. It often causes loss of job, changes or loss of relationships, and friendship issues; all because people never associate the changed actions with the possibility of Alzheimer’s.

The Importance of a Safe Environment

It’s extremely important for anyone who has Alzheimer’s to have a safe and healthy environment. Promoting quality of life is important at every age.

• Issues with Work – When diagnosed at an early age, chances are the patient’s family is much younger, living together at home, and active. Usually the spouse is working, as often is the person diagnosed, and this can cause problems with ensuring the safety of the person who has AD.
• Children – As many couples find themselves starting families at an older age than ever before, non-adult children are often involved when someone is diagnosed with early onset AD. This may play a very important part in deciding to place your loved one into special memory care units so that your children are also safer.
• Day Care – It’s difficult to explain to someone why they can’t stay home when they’re in their 50’s and 60’s if you have to leave for work each day. In some cases adult day care situations may be an answer; however, this can still cause problems as their dementia progresses.
• Stronger Bodied - Because of their age, those with EOAD quite often have a stronger body and abilities associated with someone typical of their age. This can cause dangerous confrontations between family, full time caregiving spouses, and even teenagers who may not understand why mom or dad is "being weird."
• Daily Battles – Let’s face it, life already has its daily battles but adding on something as difficult as Alzheimer’s into a younger family can create an atmosphere that is toxic. Implementing a plan for living where constant care, therapies, and trained specialists can be more beneficial to everyone. It removes daily drama in front of children, teens, and with spouses who are trying to figure out how to juggle everyday life.*Note: It’s a difficult decision, but the reality is quality of life is what’s important for everyone involved. Your loved one is more likely to enjoy daily interactions and activities with regular visits from family and friends.
• Leaving Them at Home – Because of age you may be more likely to think that they are okay being left at home to care for themselves. The truth is that Alzheimer’s and dementia can present situations that require the surroundings to be adapted for your loved one to remain safe. You don’t want to take chances with their life.

While Senior Living Experts commonly works with senior citizens and their families; Alzheimer’s is a disease that is commonly associated with aging. Because of this we can help you discover options that would work best for your loved one who has been diagnosed with early onset Alzheimer’s disease.Photo1 by Rei Chang

Photo 2 by jarmoluk (Pixabay)

Even though last week was National Assisted Living Week 2016 we’ve decided to continue the celebration another week by focusing on some ideas to keep connected. Let us help you choose the best way to enjoy your golden years happily and safely.

Keep Connected

The theme for this year’s National assisted living Week is “Keeping Connected” and we’d like to offer some ideas to help you keep connected with your senior loved one. These ideas can work for caregivers, family, and even friends.

• Write a Journal – Spend time finding out about the life of the senior you want to keep connected with by asking them questions. The great part of this is that you get to hear an amazing history while literally writing their story for them. Letters, phone calls or personal visits can all be a way to sit with them and enjoy simply listening to the answers they have to questions you ask.
• Where Did They Live – Find out where the senior lived and then take the time to prepare an updated view of where they grew up. Using different media you can share how the place they grew up looks so different now; even if they’re in the same town they grew up, it will be interesting to see the changes.
• Teaching – Teach your senior something new and ask for the same in return. If you know how to text on a phone or video from an inexpensive perhaps you could teach them. They can teach you how to knit, sing, scrapbook, paint, play an instrument, or share some other talent they may have.
• History Lesson – With age comes knowledge and that knowledge being shared is an important part of history. Spend one day a month or week, find the time, and ask them about important times in history and what they recall. (A great example: nearly every person who was old enough to remember when President John F. Kennedy was shot remembers where they were when they heard the news and has a story to share)

National Assisted Living Week

(Assisted Living Resources)

Assisted living resources are offered both on our website and around the web. Each of these resources is created with making your decisions about assisted living easier.

• Understand the Types of Living Available – It’s important to not only know what types of living are available today but we help you understand each option. Your options and living styles are changing rapidly, so don’t be confused!
• Talking to Your Loved One – Talking to your loved one about moving to assisted living facilities or living with assistance can be difficult. We covered the difficult task of talking to your loved one about choosing to move to assisted living in this blog.
• The Cost of Assisted Living – It is our job to ensure that you are aware of every aspect of choosing the right type of housing for you or your senior loved one. Let us help you with understanding how much assisted living in the Chicago area can be.
• Checklist – The assisted living Foundation of America (ALFA, now known as Argentum) offer this free, helpful PDF checklist for helping you choose the right place.
• Questions to Ask – Argentum offers a 9 point program, created to help you ask the right questions when making some decisions about finding senior living. If you are in the Chicago area, we can help you with finding the perfect fit for senior living by knowing the answers to these questions before you even have to ask.

Senior Living Experts wants to make sure that you always stay connected with your senior loved ones and we can help. Photo by Brett VA

Terry Savage is a nationally known expert on personal finance and a regular television commentator on CNN, CNBC, PBS, and NBC on issues related to investing and financial markets. She is the nationally syndicated Chicago Sun-Times personal finance columnist.

Her fourth book was published in June, 2005: The Savage Number: How Much Money Do You Need to Retire? Terry offers advice ranging from investments to withdrawal calculations to long term care insurance --to make sure your money lasts as long as you do!  (I got this information from her website which you can link to by clicking on her name above!)

She is going to appear at one of my favorite retirement communities in Chicago, the Hallmark, on March 29th!

They will be hosting a seminar based on her book - "The Savage Number Seminar"

How much money do you need to retire?  What will your retirement lifestyle look like?  How can you make sure you won't run out of money before you run out of time? If you are asking yourself any of these questions (and who isn't??) please join this informative seminar.

To RSVP please call Susan Hagan at 773.880.6208 - Seating is limited.

Thursday, March 29th
Wine & Hors d'oeuvers 5:00pm
Program 6:15pm

Senior Living Experts is one of the sponsors as we get this question from almost every family we work with.  I need to know for my future as well!

See you there!

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This morning I got an email from an adult child who had contacted me earlier in the month to help their mom find housing.  I had suggested they go to the Benefits Check Up website that I wrote about in my blog a little while ago.Anyways, they were writing me back to tell me that they had gone to the site and it came up with the same medication in the same dosage for $5.00 a month instead of the $55.00 a month that she was currently paying.  I know I could use an extra $50 a month in my budget!I feel like taking the Geico commercial and using it – 15 minutes could save you $50 a month!  So for those that don’t want to go back and read the older post, here is the direct link to the Benefits Check Up website.

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ABC News contacted me this week!  They are looking for you, the readers of this blog.

They are going to be doing a special segment on eldercare and caregiving - specifically on the "sandwich generation" which is defined as caregivers who are taking care of their children and their parents. 

They want to hear YOUR story.  Not my story, but yours!  They are looking for people to send short video clips to them which you can do with your cell phone or digital camera if it has that function.

For more information read on:

ABC News wants to know about your family, friends & loved ones.
We want to hear your care giving stories-- from the difficulties and
challenges you face caring for your elderly loved ones--to ways you've
managed to make it all work.

Get your videos in by June 22nd and you may have your story shown on
ABC's special series "Role Reversal: Your Aging Parents and You!"

It's easy! Here's HOW:

Click here to directly send a VIDEO:
https://abcnews.go.com/US/BeSeenBeHeard/story?id=3279347

ABC News is specifically requesting 15-45 second video comments or
photos.

HOW TO SUBMIT VIDEOS:

1) Via cell phone:
Record a 15-45 second clip and email it to:
seenandheard@abcnews.go.com

2) Via the web:
https://abcnews.go.com/US/BeSeenBeHeard/story?id=3279347

NOTE: Deadline for submissions is Friday, June 22nd @ midnight EDT.

When someone needs help with the basic activities of daily living (or ADL’s) its usually obvious that they should either be receiving help in the home, or moving to a community where they can receive the help they need.  ADL’s are bathing, ambulating, transferring, eating, grooming, dressing and toileting.

But what about “instrumental” activities of daily living (or IADL’s)?  These are more complex activities associated with daily life that are essential to being independent.  For example:

• Using the telephone (looking up and dialing a number, and receiving calls)
• Preparing meals (planning, shopping for and preparing a meal)
• Managing money (writing checks, paying bills, balancing the check book)
• Housekeeping (laundry, cleaning)
• Shopping (planning and purchasing as well as arranging for transportation)
• Managing medication (taking the correct does at the correct time)
• Using means of transportation (travel by car, bus or taxi)
• Caring for pets

These are usually the first signs we can look for and start to introduce some help.  Help can be a volunteer, a family member, meals on wheels, a neighbor or a professional caregiver. 

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This report was recently sent to me via email so I thought I would share it with all interested:

More than Three-Quarters of Family Caregivers Positive about the Experience

New York, NY, November 20, 2007. Nearly 80% of family caregivers are finding the caregiving experience emotionally rewarding, despite initial negative perceptions of caregiving, according to a nationwide survey by Caring Today magazine.

Published in conjunction with National Family Caregivers Month this November, the Caring Today survey shows that caregivers have distinctly more positive feelings after caring for a family member than they did as they were about to take on the responsibility. The number of caregivers finding the experience highly rewarding jumped by 50% following the caregiving experience.

"National Family Caregivers Month is a time to recognize family caregivers for their good hearts and tireless support," said President George W. Bush in a Presidential Proclamation. Some 50 million Americans act as family caregivers, providing non-paid assistance for a family member or friend who needs support, guidance and or/physical help with health and medical decisions.

Read the rest of the article here!

This week’s #MentionMonday is to Arielle Lewis, who created an information hub online (COVID19 for IL, AL and SNF (Aging Services) as a conversation forum and to keep those in Chicago eldercare up to date on news. She is part of the team supports seniors at The Selfhelp Home in Uptown and is going out of her way to provide information. Her team at SelfHelp now has a mobile "Shabbat Cart" and a video recording of messages from families for Friday night, already recorded a Passover seder to stream, and coordinated over 100 letters and cards to residents from community volunteers.

As for Arielle, she says of her work: “I am grateful every day for the love and compassion shared by the residents and staff at Selfhelp.” Follow their feed at The SelfHelp Home, or reach Arielle at alewis@selfhelphome.org.https://seniorlivingexperts.com/how-senior-living-communities-are-keeping-coronavirus-away/

Today I had a tour cancel - so while I am sad that I am not showing a family some assisted living options as planned, I am happy to have some catch up time.  Its been a long while since I posted.  There have been a few caregiver conferences and even a trip to Vegas for my birthday, but now I am back. Earlier this week, I attended a seminar given by Terry Savage .  It was fantastic.  I immediately sent a link to her website to my father for him to check out.  I was looking at it today and she has a lot of great financial tools that can help someone figure out how much they need to retire or their "Savage Number...".  If you click on her name above, it will take you directly to the site. Another reason I have not been blogging is because the phone has not stopped ringing.  While this is a good thing, I have been spending a lot of time on the phone talking to people I cannot help.  Many people this week have called me regarding nursing homes that accept Medicaid.  I work with private pay assisted living, independent living etc, as well as a few private pay nursing homes.  I can even recommend supportive living, which accepts Medicaid, but I cannot help with a Medicaid nursing home.I would hope that this is an option of absolute last resort for anyone and unfortunately it seems to be the only alternative for many people.  Many seniors did not purchase long term care insurance - maybe because its has only been around for 20 some years, or maybe because they always planned on staying in their own home. Maybe they thought that the government or Medicare would pay for their care.  It does not.  Unless you are impoverished and then that's where Medicaid kicks in. The honest truth is that your options are so much more limited if Medicaid is your only option for paying for long term care.  And the addition of all the baby boomer's in the market in the next few years is only going to make it worse.  I have already seen nursing homes where the private pay patients are in a private room and Medicaid patients are 4 to a room.  In the same nursing home. Another reason to plan NOW.  Before the crisis.  Look into long term care insurance NOW.  Before you can't get it.  What if you never need it?  Well what if you never need auto insurance or home owners insurance?  You buy it and send off that monthly check every month and hope you never need it.I will write more about long term care insurance in the future.  I am not an expert on it, but I love when someone calls me and tells me they (or their mom) has it because now I can help them and now their options are greater.  They even have the option of staying home with care - because that is not cheap either and guess who doesn't pay for that either.. that's right, Medicare.   (And with Medicaid you might be eligible for 4 hours a day 5 days a week with a caregiver that may or may not show up..)

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What is Medicaid in Illinois?
Medicaid is a federal and state program that provides health care in Illinois. This article will
discuss Medicaid for patients in a long-term care facility. This is an overview of a very
complicated program.

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Who Qualifies for Medicaid in Illinois?
The basic eligibility requirements are that the applicant must be a U.S. citizen (or non-citizen in
certain categories), an Illinois resident, 65 or older or disabled and must reside in a facility that
take Medicaid patients.

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What are the asset limitations for Medicaid in Illinois?
- Single person asset limit: $2,000.00
- Couple asset limit: $3,000.00
- Spousal impoverishment limit: $109,560.00

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Some assets are exempt and will not count in the above limits. The home is exempt if occupied
by the person as their home or if they intend to return to their home (usually within 120 days).
The home is also exempt if any of the following reside in the home:
- the person's spouse;
- a dependent sibling of the person;
- the person's child under age 21; or
- the person's adult child who is blind or has a disability;
- the person's son or daughter who provided care to the person and resided in the home for the
two years immediately before the person moved to the LTC facility.

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Other exempt assets include:
- a vehicle with a value not exceeding than $4,500.00,
- cash value of life insurance $1,500.00 or less,
- term policies with no cash value, group policies provide by an employer.

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Money for a funeral is also exempt in the following situations:
- Up to $1,500 of money set aside in a bank account or in a revocable prepaid burial
contract.
- Up to $6,680.00 in an irrevocable prepaid funeral contract.
- Prepaid burial contract funded by a life insurance policy when ownership of the insurance
policy has been irrevocably assigned. 

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Also exempt are:
Vaults, headstones, markets, plaques, burial containers, cost of opening and closing of the grave.

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What about income limitations?
A single person’s monthly income must be less than the cost of the long-term care facility to
qualify for Medicaid.

Under the spousal impoverishment rules, the spouse at home is allowed to keep $2,739.00
income per month.

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What is spousal impoverishment?
Spousal impoverishment assures that the spouse who is still living at home has enough assets and
income to pay for his or her expenses at home. The rules help prevent the spouse at home from
being impoverished when paying for long-term care expenses for the spouse in the facility.

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Can’t I just transfer the assets to someone else and go on Medicaid?
Making transfers is not a good idea unless you know the consequences. Some transfers affect
eligibility, and some do not. Whether eligibility is affected depends on when the transfer took
place, the type of transfer and the reason for the transfer. Transfers that do not affect eligibility
are called allowable transfers.

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Which transfers are allowable?

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The following are allowable transfers:
- Transfers made more than 60 months before the date of the Medicaid application;
- Transfers for fair market value, such as a sale of a home;
- Transfers to a community spouse – the spouse still living at home; 
- Transfers to the person's child of any age (who is blind or has a disability), or to another
person for the sole benefit of the person's child (who is blind or has a disability), or to a
trust created solely for the benefit of the person's child (who is blind or has a disability);
- Charitable gifts and gifts to family members which are consistent with amounts and
frequency of such gifts in the past;
- Transfers made exclusively for a reason other than to qualify for benefits.
- Transfers to special needs trust and pooled trusts in certain circumstances.

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A transfer of the home is allowable to the following:
- the person's spouse; or
- the person's child under age 21; or
- the person's child of any age who is blind or has a disability;
- the person's brother or sister who has an equity interest in the homestead property and
who was living in the home for at least one year immediately before the date the person
entered the LTC facility;
- the person's child who provided care (either nursing or support) for the person and who
was living in the property for at least two years immediately before the date the
person entered the LTC facility; 

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One size does not fit all.
Medicaid rules can vary from state to state. There are different exceptions to the rules, especially
when there is a spouse, so it is wise to check with an elder law attorney about your specific
situation and how the Medicaid rules would apply to your situation.

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Eileen R. Fitzgerald, Attorney at Law, 1561 Warren Ave., Downers Grove, IL 60515;

630-493-4380; www.efitzlaw.com

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One of my favorite organizations (H.O.M.E. - Housing Opportunities & Maintenance for the Elderly) is looking for seniors to help (again!) They are seeking referrals of low-income senior homeowners for their free weatherization program.  Referred clients should meet these criteria:•    Own their own home•    Reside south of North Avenue within the city of Chicago•    Windows in home are low-quality and/or not thermal- or double-paned•    Senior lacks resources to obtain weatherization services on their ownVolunteers who are trained and supervised by H.O.M.E. staff will perform the work.Due to the last-minute (and very welcome!) availability of a large volunteer  group, they still have spaces for weatherization calls on Saturday, January 6They of course are also welcoming referrals for future weatherization service.Referrals may be made to either Mike Wren or Eric Samuels at 773-921-3200.How cool (or warm?) is that?

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During this on-going global crisis one thing on the forefront of all our minds is the health and safety of our loved ones especially those who are older and require more care. Though it feels like the world has slowed down in some respects our loved ones are continuing to age and now might be the time that they are ready or needing to move into a senior living community, where less than 1% of residents get COVID-19. Even though this timing is not ideal here are some of the pros and cons of moving your senior loved ones into a senior living community. ‍

PROS:

Monitored Community

One of the biggest benefits and the reason many families move their loved ones to a community is for the consistent care and attention to medical needs (even small things that go unnoticed, like what they do to prevent falls). In a community residents health needs are always a top priority and are monitored closely this is very important with the risk of COVID-19. With this current health crisis what better place for your older loved ones to be then a place designed with their health needs in mind.

Sanitized with the Highest Standards

With COVID-19 one of the biggest suggestions given by our world health leaders is washing out hands and staying clean. Sanitation is a permanent top priority in senior living communities with an even bigger emphasis now. If your loved one struggles with independent self-care a senior living community can fulfil this need while also helping to reduce the spread of COVID-19.  

‍All Food, Care & Necessities Provided

I’m sure by this point everyone has heard and or is familiar with the term social distancing. By moving your loved ones into a senior living community full social distancing is easily obtainable. All residents' needs are fulfilled in one place this includes food, medicine and other daily needs so trips to the grocery store or pharmacy will no longer be needed. During this time getting all your loved ones’ needs met can be difficult but you can be assured that they will be met in a senior living community.

‍No Interactions with Strangers

Another great thing senior living communities are doing during COVID-19 is limiting foot traffic. By limiting interactions with those outside of the community they also limit the risk of COVID-19 spreading.

CONS:

It's difficult to tour communities because of social distancing. How do you know this is the right one?

When picking out a senior living community for your loved ones one aspect many enjoy is touring to find the right one. But with limited foot traffic through communities touring will not be possible for most. Though this is a downfall with the help of technology, virtual tours and online resources can give potential residents an idea of what each community has to offer, mostly when it's so expensive.

‍You're moving your loved one to a new environment during a difficult time

With the COVID-19 health crisis ongoing many of us are tempted to freak-out and hoard resources, like toilet paper, during this challenging time. While so much is on our minds moving our loved one into a senior living community may seem like a worrisome task. Even with this it's important to remember that care staff want what's best for your loved one just like you and you will be moving them into safe hands.

You're moving your loved ones around other seniors, who are also at high risk

We all know that COVID-19 poses a bigger threat to those over 65 so for many moving your older loved ones in with other similarly aged people may seem like a bad idea. With this though being around others who are elevated risk does not necessarily mean you are at higher risk for contamination. About 9 out of 10 cases of COVID-19 are being spread by “silent spreaders” so placing your loved one in a senior care community does not increase their risk because these communities have the facilities to practice social distancing and room isolation to slow the spread.

While COVID-19 is interrupting many aspects of our normal life you can now know the pros and cons of moving your loved one into a senior living community during this difficult time.

For More Info:“How 'Silent Spreaders' Are Fueling the Coronavirus Pandemic.” Los Angeles Times, Los Angeles Times, 17 Mar. 2020, www.latimes.com/science/story/2020-03-17/how-silent-spreaders-are-fueling-the-coronavirus-pandemic.

We would like to take the time to help you discover ways to honor senior veterans in your life & community. November 11, 2016 is Veterans Day. It’s a great time to let someone know that their service mattered.

How to Honor Senior Veterans

Honoring veterans of any age is important. However, to honor senior veterans is especially important because many may not have received the thanks they deserved.

• The USO – The USO has played a big role in many of our veterans’ lives. Senior vets will be able to tell you about USO dances, USO Shows & more. Find out more about the USO here.
• Celebrate Their Life – Take the time to celebrate the life of a veteran. It’s important to let them know that their service truly made a difference. You can celebrate with a small party, a photo montage or any other ideas you can think of.
• Volunteer at a Senior Community – Find out if a senior living community near you is celebrating Veterans Day. See how you can help with their celebration. (Remember to plan ahead!)
• Veterans in Your Life – If you have a senior veteran in your life take the time to make their day special. Hang a new flag in an area they can see regularly or simply stop by with a special treat to say “thank you for serving.”
• Know the History – Find documentaries, books, and movies that teach you more about the wars that a senior veteran may have been active in. These would include WWII, Korean War, Cuban Missile Crisis, Viet Nam, etc. Each of the wars listed is a link with more information.
• Visit the Local VA – Call ahead to see if you can visit your local VA hospital. Take the time to talk to the veterans about what it was like to serve.
• Have a Talk –Take the time to talk to a veteran. Many senior vets are lonely. Use these guidelines to help you know how to talk to a vet.
• Don’t Forget Women – Women weren’t always recognized or allowed to serve their country. Learn more about women in the military & take time to talk to a senior woman who helped our country.

3 Gift Ideas to Honor Senior Veterans

If you know someone in your family who is a senior veteran, take the time to make their day special. Here are a few gift ideas:

1. Dessert – A healthy dessert can be fun to share. Use some of these red, white, & blue dessert ideas.
2. Video – Something as easy as using your cell phone to create a video log of stories from a senior vet you know will be priceless. You, the vet, and their entire family will be able to enjoy these memories throughout time. Here are some tips to help you out.
3. Read to a Senior Vet – Take the time to visit a local VA hospital and read. One on one time with a senior vet can be very important to them. Here’s the link to our Chicago, IL VA Hospital.

Senior Living Experts is proud to provide services to many senior veterans. Please help us honor senior veterans this year and make a difference. Photo by ** RCB **

Having the conversation with your senior loved one is one of the biggest deterrents in helping the senior make a life transition. It’s very difficult to explain the changes you see in the senior, and why you think they would benefit from some extra support. One of the best ways to handle this is to get the doctor more involved. There is nothing wrong with calling the doctor prior to an appointment to ask for his/her support in offering their concerns on why they think a change would benefit the senior. This takes some of the burden off the adult child by allowing the child to be able to refer to what the doctor said when bringing up the subject in the future. Often, seniors revere their physicians and their opinion matters a great deal. If the adult child can reiterate the points the doctor made, the shift has been taken off the child, and the senior is more likely to listen to the doctor’s advice.We also recommend a respite stay when the senior is first starting to wrap their head around the idea of making a lifestyle transition. Most senior living communities will let the senior stay for a couple of weeks to a month or more, to “try it before you buy it”. It’s a great way for the senior to meet some new friends, try the food, get used to the routine, environment, and staff. Often, this gives the senior the opportunity to live the lifestyle for a while, and at some point, the senior realizes this is much easier than it was at home.Finally, when these ideas have been exhausted, but the senior still is not willing to make the change, we would recommend hiring a Geriatric Care Manager. This is usually a nurse who makes a plan of care for the senior and proposes his/her ideas for more support for the senior. Sometimes having a third party involved helps the adult child who wants to say things to their parent, but just can’t. The Geriatric Care Manager can be an objective voice allowing the child to maintain their relationship with their parent, yet still have an advocate by their side helping to see that the parent has a plan for future care needs.It’s a difficult road for the adult child, but with some tools in their tool box, they can help their loved one make a successful transition to senior living!

When it comes to senior living facilities in Lincoln Park, know your residents’ rights. Seniors have rights, protected by law, including those in skilled-nursing care. Make sure to ask questions during tours and visits of assisted-living or other senior residences before moving in; read contracts and paperwork, and ask a trusted friend or family member to review it with you. Reach out for help when needed, or if you are looking for senior living situations in the area. Senior Living Experts can help connect you with a network of support to navigate the terrain of finding housing, providers, or services in the Lincoln Park region.Some things to know about your rights as a senior include the following information:

For those residing in senior living facilities in Lincoln Park: Know your residents’ rights before you move in or out

Know that you- or your senior- have some very clear and clarified rights under the law. These extend to living facilities and the treatment of older individuals that reside there. Feel like your rights are being violated? First, know what your rights and protections are, and then do something about it!Some of every senior’s rights include:

Protection

First and foremost is the protection of any senior who chooses to file a staff grievance or complaint, without fear of repercussions or reprisal. This also ensures that staff of any senior living facility address the issue promptly and make efforts toward resolution.

Preservation

Another right of residents in senior living situations is the preservation of quality of life. Federal law requires facilities to provide care that promotes quality of life, which includes freedom of choice, dignity, and self-determination. That is, services and activities will be provided to ensure the well-being of those living there- though it is entirely up to the individual whether they opt to participate or not.

Information

Another right of the senior resident is to obtain a copy of any rules, regulations, resources, and costs of the facility that they are staying at - including a copy of the residents’ rights. Residents that have roommates will receive ample notice, in writing, of any roommate or room changes. Furthermore, residents have the right to receive this information in a language that they can understand.

Participation

Residents of a senior living situation have the right to receive care as needed, and that this care is by consent of the resident. Seniors have a right to remain informed about their care, medical conditions, or treatment, as well as the right to refuse it. The resident should be given access to their medical records and documentation when requested, and as relates to the living facility.

Privacy

Seniors also have the right to privacy and confidentiality. Any communication related to the senior should only be shared when the individual has consented to release this information, signed by the senior or their guardian in some situations. This includes medical, financial, or personal information.

Autonomy

Another right of the senior resident is the independence and autonomy to make personal choices and decisions. This may include choosing what to wear, how they manage their money, or how they opt to spend their leisure time.

Seniors in skilled-nursing care also have distinct rights and protections under the law.

Seniors that live in skilled nursing settings and nursing home residents also have legal rights; in fact, if the senior is a Medicare recipient, they have guaranteed protections under Federal law.Some of the very precise and protected rights of a senior in a nursing facility are similar to those of seniors in other living situations and include:

• Freedom from discrimination.
• Freedom from abuse or neglect.
• Right to medical treatment.
• Right to privacy and respect.
• Freedom from involuntary discharge from a facility or transfer to another facility without consent.
• Right to participate in activities and groups on-site.
• Right to have visitors.
• Right to vote, if the senior is a US citizen.
• Right to manage their own money.
• Right to have information pertaining to services and costs of the facility.
• Right to proper and safe living arrangements.
• Freedom to voice complaints without fear of repercussions.

Reach out for advocacy and legal assistance as needed

There are times when seniors’ rights seem to get overlooked or ignored; enlist the help of a lawyer or senior service that provides legal advice and counsel. There are laws in place intended to protect the rights of seniors, and resources available to help seniors navigate the often-complicated legal system in these situations.Some of the things that legal services for the elderly can assist your senior with include:

• Medicare and insurance issues.
• Dealing with nursing homes, assisted-living facilities, and home health care disputes.
• Scams and thefts.
• Issues of abuse.
• Appointing power of attorney.
• Wills and living wills.
• Evictions or housing problems.
• Debt resolution and working with collection agencies.

Do you or someone you care about feel like your rights are being compromised? Senior Living Experts is an online resource that can help seniors in the region connect with a network of facilities, advocates, and providers that can help improve your current situation, protect your rights, and preserve your independence.