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Encouraging eating: Advice for at-home dementia caregivers

It's not hard to encourage eating today, am I right?  I found some great tips from The National Institute on Aging to promote a stress free day of eating for all you most generous Caregivers!

Tips for Making Mealtimes Easier and More Enjoyable

  • View mealtimes as opportunities for social interaction and success for yourself and the person with dementia.  A warm & happy tone of voice can set the mood. 
  • Try to make mealtimes calm, comfortable, and reassuring.  Be patient, avoid rushing through meals, and give the person enough time to finish the meal... 

 

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New Old Age: Turning a Home Into a Hospital

One woman shares her experience with hospice care for her Mother...


Turning a Home Into a Hospital

By LINDA G. BEELER

 

At age 96, my mother moved to New York City to live with me and my family in our two-bedroom Manhattan apartment after becoming increasingly isolated while living alone in Florida. She moved into my sons’ bedroom surrounded by all manner of adolescent paraphernalia, including every style of trendy sneakers, a giant papier-mâché statue of Michael Jordan and a poster of Bob Marley.

 

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Caring.com: How to Have The Talk With Your Parents

 At a loss for how to approach these delicate subjects?  Caring.com provides some sage advice:

How to Have "The Talk" With Your Parents

By Paula Spencer Scott, Caring.com senior editor

Wondering how to start the conversation with an aging parent about a sensitive topic? Whether you need to talk about moving, giving up driving, or bringing in help, knowing which words to use and to avoid can improve the odds of moving toward solutions.

 

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AARP: What Caregivers Don't Tell Anyone

Do you find yourself relating to this?  You are not alone!



What Caregivers Don’t Tell Anyone

Posted by Sally Abrahms

 “Sally Abrahms can take her crown off now!” Ouch. That was one response to my story that recently ran in the AARP Bulletin explaining common emotions (guiltgrief, exhaustion) family caregivers have and strategies for dealing with them.

I was writing about my own experience — I’m a long distance caregiver, not someone who lives 24/7 with a sick or chronically needy parent — as well as what I have observed from my work...

 

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Caring.com: Home Care Safety

Apply these tips to your home and you'll always feel comfort...

7 Design Secrets for a House You Can Live in Forever

By Paula Spencer Scott, Caring.com senior editor

The words dream house may conjure up fantasy amenities and custom trims. But smart homeowners also imagine a home they can live in forever -- with a young family, through busy midlife, and with many of the common physical limitations that getting older can bring, from arthritis to needing a wheelchair.

 

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AARP: Retirement Planning

Some helpful tips from AARP.  Have a great weekend!


Should You Rent or Own in Retirement?

How to make this key decision in today’s unusual housing market

by: Jean Chatzky

When the time comes to make your next move — whether it's across the country to a sought-after retirement destination or across town to a place with more amenities — you have to make one decision off the bat: Do you buy? Or do you rent? That's never been an easy call, and this tepid housing market makes it even more difficult.

 

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Caring.com: Help with Clinical Depression

Caring.com suggest how little adjustments to the lighting in the home can have a big impact...

8 Types of Good Lighting Your Loved One With Depression Needs

By Paula Spencer Scott, Caring.com senior editor

Are your loved one's living spaces well lit? Good lighting can reduce depression for people with dementia. It may also slow cognitive decline and the loss of functional abilities, according to a study in the Journal of the American Medical Association... 

 

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Caring.com: Better Sleep for Seniors

This information might be old news, but with the stress the Holidays can bring these tips from Caring.com can act as a reminder to help make sure you loved ones are getting the sleep they need.

5 Practical Tips to Help You Sleep Better

By Laurie Udesky, Caring.com senior editor

Quick summary

As we age, the architecture of our sleep changes dramatically. The deep, delectable sleep in which we're oblivious to the outside world and its sounds, called slow wave sleep, becomes shorter and more elusive. Our total sleep time also declines. Infants sleep an average of 11.6 hours per night, but by the time we hit 70, our nighttime sleep has shrunk by nearly half, to an average of 6.6 hours.

 

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AAPR: Dealing With Grief During the Holidays

Sorry to end the week on a sad note, but grief & death do not care it's the Holidays.  My hope is that this article helps to provide some comfort during a difficult time you and your family or in my case friends (a dear friend just lost her Grandmother this week) may be experiencing.  

Take solace in the weekend and remember, although it may feel like it, at least the world didn't actually end today!  Sorry Mayans.


10 things to help get you through this difficult time

by: Amy Goyer | from: AARP 

Grieving the loss of a loved one is a deep and difficult challenge at any time. But the holiday season can magnify your sense of loss and mourning. Family gatherings and seasonal events can be painful reminders of the absence of a loved one...

 

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Staying Independent in Old Age, With a Little Help

I'll be back on Wednesday with regularly scheduled posts.  Merry Christmas Eve!  


Staying Independent in Old Age, With a Little Help

By JANE E. BRODY

My 92-year-old aunt, who is cognitively impaired and requires a walker or wheelchair to get around, still lives in her own apartment, where round-the-clock home health aides help her get to and from the bathroom, bathe, dress and undress, and go outside each day for some fresh air...

 

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Caring.com: Visiting the Elderly

Still making your Holiday rounds?  Caring.com provides some helpful tips...    

11 Tips for a Terrific Visit With an Elderly Loved One

By Paula Spencer Scott, Caring.com senior editor

Unsure what to say or do when you visit an older loved one? Worry about running out things to say? Many people make brief visits to those in assisted living, rehab facilities, or nursing homes -- or avoid visiting completely -- because they dread awkward moments.  Please don't let these concerns stop you from visiting...

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Caring.com: 5 Ways to Make Living With an Older Adult Easier

Another helpful list from Caring.com


Try these simple solutions to ease the crankies and boost everyone's mood.

By Lara Belonogoff, Caring.com staff writer

One issue that family caregivers don't often talk about is how cranky everyone can get living under one roof -- especially if the person you're caring for is sometimes or often cranky. You know the toll that it can take on the entire household -- and how that person's mood can rub off on you. But how do you go about making your home a happier place?

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The Flaws of Hospice

New Old Age provides a closer look...


On the Way to Hospice, Surprising Hurdles

By PAULA SPAN

I’ve often wondered why more families don’t call hospice when a loved one has a terminal disease — and why people who do call wait so long, often until death is just days away.

 

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AARP: Top 15 Superfoods for People Over 50

I wanted to help inspire us all to stay healthy with this AARP article...


Top 15 Superfoods for People Over 50

These delicious foods help protect eyes, lungs, heart and brain

by Julia Bencomo Lobaco, AARP, December 21, 2012

Apples

Apples contain soluble fiber, which may help lower cholesterol and slow the uptake of glucose, helping you maintain healthy blood sugar levels. They're also a super source of potassium, antioxidants and vitamin C.

 

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AARP: Ask the Pharmacist

The AARP provides helpful information on what not to ignore when it come to legs cramps...


8 Types of Drugs That Can Cause Leg Cramps

Pain may be a sign of an underlying medical problem

by: Dr. Armon B. Neel Jr. | from: AARP 

The older you are, the more likely you are to get nighttime leg cramps — sudden jolts of pain that can last from just a few seconds to 15 or more minutes. Some studies, in fact, suggest that more than two-thirds of older people have experienced these painful cramps.

 

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New Old Age: Arts & Culture

Have you guys seen this movie?  I haven't, but a friend was still reeling from it hours after she saw it this past weekend.  That combined with this article makes me want to see it.  Crazy I know, but I'm intrigued...

The Brutal Truth of ‘Amour’

By PAULA SPAN

It has been a few days since I left the movie theater in a bit of a daze, and I’m still thinking about “Amour.”

So much of this already much-honored film rings utterly true: the way a long-married Parisian couple’s daily routines, their elegant life of books and music and art, can be upended in a moment. 

 

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How to help a caregiver:

I wanted to show how helping a Caregiver can be quite simple, if you know the right things to say. These helpful tips from the Mayo Clinic gives you a roadmap for effective helping!

Alzheimer's care is a round-the-clock job. When you offer to help an Alzheimer's caregiver, be specific — and gently persistent.

By Mayo Clinic staff

Alzheimer's caregivers need all the support they can get.  If you know someone who's caring for a loved one who has Alzheimer's disease, here's how to help...

 

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Young Adult Caregivers

Are you a younger Caregiver?  I wanted the share this Chicago Tribune article on the expierence of one young woman who made the decision to be closer to home to help out.  It also provides tips to help you balance being young & caregiving.  


Young caregivers have outlets to aid the cause

January 25, 2013|Carolyn Bigda

When Leah Drew started a mater's degree in French in 2005, she was 22. But that summer, she, along with her younger sister and father, received dreaded news: her mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease and would eventually need round-the-clock care.

 

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AARP: 6 Tax Tips for Family Caregivers

Now that we're into March, April is that much closer.  While we no doubt welcome Spring, here in Chicago, the dreaded tax deadline can make people cringe; evenmoreso if you're a Caregiver.  Fear not, the AAPR sheds light on some tax-related questions.  

Have a great weekend and don't forget to set the clock forward on Saturday night!  Woohoo!



Learn what to do to save money, qualify for some federal breaks

by Judi Hasson, AARP

If you're paying all or part of the cost of caring for a parent or another relative, you may qualify for some federal tax breaks. And who couldn't use the extra money?

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Mayo Clinic: Living wills and advance directives for medical decisions

These are never easy discussions, but it's always better to have a plan in place.  The Mayo Clinic helps you understand what you need to think about for yourself & as Caregivers, ask your loved one so you'll one day be better prepared.


Living wills and advance directives for medical decisions...

By Mayo Clinic staff

Living wills and other advance directives describe your preferences regarding treatment if you're faced with a serious accident or illness. These legal documents speak for you when you're not able to speak for yourself — for instance, if you're in a coma.

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