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Caring.com: Visiting the Elderly

Still making your Holiday rounds?  Caring.com provides some helpful tips...    

11 Tips for a Terrific Visit With an Elderly Loved One

By Paula Spencer Scott, Caring.com senior editor

Unsure what to say or do when you visit an older loved one? Worry about running out things to say? Many people make brief visits to those in assisted living, rehab facilities, or nursing homes -- or avoid visiting completely -- because they dread awkward moments.  Please don't let these concerns stop you from visiting...

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Staying Independent in Old Age, With a Little Help

I'll be back on Wednesday with regularly scheduled posts.  Merry Christmas Eve!  


Staying Independent in Old Age, With a Little Help

By JANE E. BRODY

My 92-year-old aunt, who is cognitively impaired and requires a walker or wheelchair to get around, still lives in her own apartment, where round-the-clock home health aides help her get to and from the bathroom, bathe, dress and undress, and go outside each day for some fresh air...

 

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AAPR: Dealing With Grief During the Holidays

Sorry to end the week on a sad note, but grief & death do not care it's the Holidays.  My hope is that this article helps to provide some comfort during a difficult time you and your family or in my case friends (a dear friend just lost her Grandmother this week) may be experiencing.  

Take solace in the weekend and remember, although it may feel like it, at least the world didn't actually end today!  Sorry Mayans.


10 things to help get you through this difficult time

by: Amy Goyer | from: AARP 

Grieving the loss of a loved one is a deep and difficult challenge at any time. But the holiday season can magnify your sense of loss and mourning. Family gatherings and seasonal events can be painful reminders of the absence of a loved one...

 

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Caring.com: Better Sleep for Seniors

This information might be old news, but with the stress the Holidays can bring these tips from Caring.com can act as a reminder to help make sure you loved ones are getting the sleep they need.

5 Practical Tips to Help You Sleep Better

By Laurie Udesky, Caring.com senior editor

Quick summary

As we age, the architecture of our sleep changes dramatically. The deep, delectable sleep in which we're oblivious to the outside world and its sounds, called slow wave sleep, becomes shorter and more elusive. Our total sleep time also declines. Infants sleep an average of 11.6 hours per night, but by the time we hit 70, our nighttime sleep has shrunk by nearly half, to an average of 6.6 hours.

 

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Caring.com: Help with Clinical Depression

Caring.com suggest how little adjustments to the lighting in the home can have a big impact...

8 Types of Good Lighting Your Loved One With Depression Needs

By Paula Spencer Scott, Caring.com senior editor

Are your loved one's living spaces well lit? Good lighting can reduce depression for people with dementia. It may also slow cognitive decline and the loss of functional abilities, according to a study in the Journal of the American Medical Association... 

 

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AARP: Retirement Planning

Some helpful tips from AARP.  Have a great weekend!


Should You Rent or Own in Retirement?

How to make this key decision in today’s unusual housing market

by: Jean Chatzky

When the time comes to make your next move — whether it's across the country to a sought-after retirement destination or across town to a place with more amenities — you have to make one decision off the bat: Do you buy? Or do you rent? That's never been an easy call, and this tepid housing market makes it even more difficult.

 

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Caring.com: Home Care Safety

Apply these tips to your home and you'll always feel comfort...

7 Design Secrets for a House You Can Live in Forever

By Paula Spencer Scott, Caring.com senior editor

The words dream house may conjure up fantasy amenities and custom trims. But smart homeowners also imagine a home they can live in forever -- with a young family, through busy midlife, and with many of the common physical limitations that getting older can bring, from arthritis to needing a wheelchair.

 

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AARP: What Caregivers Don't Tell Anyone

Do you find yourself relating to this?  You are not alone!



What Caregivers Don’t Tell Anyone

Posted by Sally Abrahms

 “Sally Abrahms can take her crown off now!” Ouch. That was one response to my story that recently ran in the AARP Bulletin explaining common emotions (guiltgrief, exhaustion) family caregivers have and strategies for dealing with them.

I was writing about my own experience — I’m a long distance caregiver, not someone who lives 24/7 with a sick or chronically needy parent — as well as what I have observed from my work...

 

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Caring.com: How to Have The Talk With Your Parents

 At a loss for how to approach these delicate subjects?  Caring.com provides some sage advice:

How to Have "The Talk" With Your Parents

By Paula Spencer Scott, Caring.com senior editor

Wondering how to start the conversation with an aging parent about a sensitive topic? Whether you need to talk about moving, giving up driving, or bringing in help, knowing which words to use and to avoid can improve the odds of moving toward solutions.

 

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New Old Age: Turning a Home Into a Hospital

One woman shares her experience with hospice care for her Mother...


Turning a Home Into a Hospital

By LINDA G. BEELER

 

At age 96, my mother moved to New York City to live with me and my family in our two-bedroom Manhattan apartment after becoming increasingly isolated while living alone in Florida. She moved into my sons’ bedroom surrounded by all manner of adolescent paraphernalia, including every style of trendy sneakers, a giant papier-mâché statue of Michael Jordan and a poster of Bob Marley.

 

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Encouraging eating: Advice for at-home dementia caregivers

It's not hard to encourage eating today, am I right?  I found some great tips from The National Institute on Aging to promote a stress free day of eating for all you most generous Caregivers!

Tips for Making Mealtimes Easier and More Enjoyable

  • View mealtimes as opportunities for social interaction and success for yourself and the person with dementia.  A warm & happy tone of voice can set the mood. 
  • Try to make mealtimes calm, comfortable, and reassuring.  Be patient, avoid rushing through meals, and give the person enough time to finish the meal... 

 

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Signs of Alzheimer’s at the holidays

Here's a good article from the Alzheimer's Association to read before the big day...

Signs of Alzheimer’s at the holidays

In addition to a new dessert recipe or family vacation photos, bring an important gift home this holiday season and become educated about the warning signs of dementia and Alzheimer’s disease. Visiting with relatives over the holidays may raise questions about the physical and cognitive health of family members.

 

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Caregiving Fact Sheet: Issues and Strategies

This is a great overview of Caregiving!  As a matter of fact, the Family Caregiver Alliance is full of great overviews, so check them out.  

Have a great weekend!  


Introduction

Caregiving takes many forms. Many of us help older, sick, or disabled family members and friends every day. We know we are helping, but we don't think of ourselves as caregivers. We are glad to do this and feel rewarded by it, but if the demands are heavy, over time we can also become exhausted and stressed...

 

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How to Help Your Loved One Control High Blood Pressure

Tips on Caregiving from Everyday Health


You can help by reading nutrition labels, cooking heart healthy meals, and being an exercise buddy and a friend.

By Beth W. Orenstein // Medically reviewed by Niya Jones, MD, MPH

The best way for most people to control their high blood pressure is to maintain a healthy weight, exercise, take their hypertension medications, and reduce the stress in their lives. They should also quit smoking, avoid secondhand smoke, and limit alcohol consumption.

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AARP: Managing Caregiver Emotions

With Holiday Season nearing full swing, the stress that comes along with Caregiving can be at an all time high.  I hope this article, from the AARP helps...

 
How to manage and confront three distinct and difficult experiences while caregiving

by: Sally Abrahms | from: AARP Bulletin

Ever since I've been a caregiver, I've been waiting for The Call. If you're caring for a loved one, you know what I mean — the telephone rings, and you learn that your parent has taken a turn for the worse and you must rush to his side. In the past 12 years I've taken care of my father, then my mother and now my 93-year-old mother-in-law. The Call keeps coming, and I've been on edge the whole time, waiting.

 

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Retirement: How to Pay for Long-Term Care

Wondering about the cost of Long-Term Care?  This article from Barron's might help... 

Premiums are rising quickly for insurance covering stays in nursing homes and assisted-living facilities. One solution: Combine a policy with some "self insurance."

By CAROLYN T. GEER

It's one of the biggest challenges for today's retirees: how to afford an extended stay in a nursing home or assisted-living facility. With the tab steadily rising, sometimes hitting six digits per year, the solution requires real creativity.

 

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"People in assisted living need intimacy"

PennLive featured great advise on navigating a "touchy" topic...

People in assisted living need intimacy

By Linda Rhodes 

This is the final segment of a three-part series on “Sexuality, Intimacy and Aging,” all of which appear at PennLive.com, for those of you who have missed the previous columns.     

This week, we’ll discuss the challenges of intimacy for couples and individuals grappling with dementia, and those living in skilled nursing and assisted-living facilities. 

 

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AARP: 8 Foods That Help Lower Cholesterol

I'm happy to see some of my favorites foods listed here and with that,  have a great weekend while simutaneously improving your cholesterol!  

Enjoy a heart-healthy diet that won't clog your arteries

by: Nissa Simon | from: AARP | 

Avocados:

Avocados contain significant amounts of oleic acid, a healthy monounsaturated fat that helps boost good cholesterol and lower bad. Avocados are also rich in fiber and a plant chemical called beta-sitosterol, both of which help keep cholesterol in check.

Tip: Avocados significantly increase absorption of immunity-boosting antioxidants found in fruits and vegetables. Add a couple of slices of diced avocado to your next salad.

 

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New Old Age: The Deadly Threat of Silent Heart Attacks

We recently covered sudden heart attacks, but what about the kind that happens without you even knowing it?  Read this, from New Old Age, to find out more on silent heart attacks:


The Deadly Threat of Silent Heart Attacks

By JUDITH GRAHAM

For more than six months, Harriett Cooke had been uncommonly tired, panting when she walked her sixth grade science class to the cafeteria and struggling to keep her eyes open when she drove home at night.

 

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Assisted living: Not your grandma's retirement

Yahoo Finance shares an article from Bankrate, Inc. on the many options for Senior Living:

By Shelly K. Schwartz | Bankrate.com

Trends in assisted living

Hospital curtains and cafeteria food? Not anymore.

assisted living facilities have come a long way from the clinical institutions of old, offering residents an ever-expanding menu of amenities that reflect the diversity of baby boomers themselves.

 

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